Chelsey Sterling Coaching & Consulting -

Ashley T.

Chelsey is absolutely wonderful! She was super supportive and gave me great advice and resources (books, podcasts, etc.). She also took the time to help me recreate my dating profile. I can tell that she is very knowledgeable and passionate about what she does. My favorite part about working with Chelsey was that she is an amazing cheerleader. Because of Chelsey, I was able to identify patterns that were keeping me from finding a long term partner. I started dating completely differently, and now I have a wonderful boyfriend! I highly recommend Chelsey!

Yuki

TLDR - I've spent YEARS trying to figure out the enigma of online dating from running multiple profiles, tracking statistics, and reading blogs and self help articles, but after 15+ years (some passively, some actively) I had little to no success. After two sessions with Chelsey, not only did my stats go up substantially (tracked to see which apps worked best for me), her services also helped me find the wonderful woman that I'm now married with. I would highly recommend Chelsey if you are looking to improve your online dating game for higher quality dates, a long-term relationship, and maybe even marriage if that's what you're looking for.

As mentioned, I did a lot on my own to try and figure out a successful strategy for online dating, from reading self help guides, to tracking my own stats. Being below 5'10" and Asian, my history with self managed online dating hasn't been the easiest, and that's probably an understatement. I tracked stats for one month without Chelsey, and a year and a half later, for one month with Chelsey's service. On my own and running four apps simultaneously (OkCupid, Match, Tinder, Bumble), I matched with 10 individuals and communicated with 3. This was pretty crummy considering I sent 88 well thought out conversation starters and swiped right on 1,478 profiles. I also want to note that I was a paid subscriber to all four applications which cost me $234.32 for the one month.

Here's where the stats get fun. I came across Chelsey's dating group for men on Facebook and decided to join. I was mostly scoping it out to see if Chelsey was legit, and after seeing a few of her blog posts, I quickly realized that she knew what she was talking about. I started with her basic service to makeover my profile, and she did a great job. She helped me highlight the important details, pick out a lineup of pictures, and we discussed tips and tricks for success. This time I was on three apps (Facebook Dating, Match, Tinder), and after three weeks (week four was not tracked because I met my now wife in week 3) I matched with 42 individuals and communicated with 9. This was great considering I only sent 9 conversation starters and swiped right on 1,415 profiles. In this case, I was a paid subscriber to only two of the apps, and applied what I saved to Chelsey's services.

In the end, if you're struggling with figuring out online dating and are planning on spending a little money to help improve your odds, my recommendation would be to spend it on Chelsey's services instead of falling into the nickel and dime schemes offered by almost every online dating app, like extended terms for cheaper overall price (think short-term subscriptions, not long-term), or extra features to help improve chances (might help you get seen, doesn't help you stand out). Cheers!

Josh R.

Chelsey has been great! She has got me to focus more on myself, understanding the kind of person I am as well. Turning this into who I should be looking for. She’ll challenge you to question yourself, but to better yourself. She will listen to you and your concerns, she will try to take you out of your comfort zone, but it’s these norms that we got to break if we want to give ourselves a chance. I myself am a work in progress, Chelsey is patient and will work you to your ultimate goal. I’m glad I met her because I’m not afraid to tell her everything, I’m comfortable working with her, I felt like I gained a new friend in the process, which helps in the process in working on yourself.

Mei Q. H.

Chelsey was able to help me change so much of my bad habits as well as insecurities so that I could have a better relationship with myself as well as others. Talking to Chelsey felt like talking to a close friend that won't judge you for your mistakes and actively supports you on your journey to better yourself. I thoroughly enjoyed our conversations and heart to heart moments. I have seen so much growth in a month of talking to her and I will continue to grow after. I definitelty recommend her services and I promise that you won't regret it. She is so lovely to talk to and has helped me so much with my problems! Her book reccomendations are awesome too!!

Chintan D.

Chelsey is an absolutely fantastic coach. We did a book study together and during this time, I learned a ton about reducing my neediness and being more vulnerable and honest with women. She also provided great situational feedback on the X's and O's of my dating life. Lastly, she really pushed me to break out of my shell a bit. I know she primarily works with women clients, but I absolutely would recommend her to males as well! I'm in a much better place in terms of my dating life and self-assuredness.

TX -. R. H.

Chelsey did an amazing job at communicating and asking in-depth and thought-provoking questions to help me during a really challenging time. I really appreciated her following up and checking in on me on a regular basis as well as supporting my ideas and goals. I would highly recommend reaching out to her for guidance!

Sarah D.

I recommend working with Chelsey after my experience meeting with her for a 1:1 strategy session. I was looking for support navigating the modern online dating world (and hoping for some offline tips, too!) and Chelsey provided that in our session and in her follow-up documentation. Chelsey's focus on practical and applicable ideas made the prospect of dating seem less daunting. I'm most appreciative of her emphasis on making a plan with steps that you can manage and follow through with: great advice for dating and for life.

Cooper A.

Chelsey is amazing!! I'm recently going throw being the second choice. Shes helping me understand how I am as a person an amazing advice on how I need to handle different things. She has given so much inspiration. Giving me inspiration for what the future holds for me.